Pray for marriage

Marriage

Two lines, one journey. Christ at the center keeps the wheel from wobbling. Soften us both. Forgive what has been said. Begin a new day.

Take it to the Lifeline

Three verses to hold

  • Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.

    1 Peter 4:8

  • Be completely humble and gentle. Be patient, bearing with one another in love.

    Ephesians 4:2

  • A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

    Ecclesiastes 4:12

A prayer to start with

Father, soften us both. Forgive what has been said. Where we have grown cold, light a fire. Where we have grown loud, give us quiet. Begin a new day.

A short walk this week

  1. Pray for your spouse out loud once a day this week.
  2. Ask one honest question and listen without defending.
  3. Speak one specific thank you to them each day.
  4. Plan one undistracted hour together with no phones.

Words to look up in the Bible

  • covenant
  • love
  • forgive
  • humble
  • patient

Questions people ask

  • How do I pray for a hard marriage?

    Pray for soft hearts before you pray for fixed problems. Ask God to start the work in you, not just in your spouse.

  • Is it biblical to fight for a marriage that feels over?

    Yes, in most cases. God is in the business of resurrection. There are also hard exceptions for abuse and unfaithfulness. Get wise counsel.

  • What if only one of us wants to grow?

    Then pray, soften, and walk faithfully. The Spirit moves through one person who stays close to Christ.

The lifeline is the answer

The Lifeline is two hands on a rope. The hand from heaven, and your hand reaching back. Watch the teaching, then bring this hard thing to it.